Six Signs Self-Love is Thriving


Six Signs Self-Love is Thriving

1.  You Love Yourself FIRST.  Above all else. And most importantly, you stand proudly in this reality.  No editing your self-loving commentary. No adjusting or compromising your self-loving choices. Being proud to put yourself #1.

 2.  You GIVE love to yourself FIRST.  The story of the oxygen mask appearing on an airplane when there's a crisis never gets old. . . the point being: Put it on yourself first in order to be of any value to anyone, including yourself.  Your thriving priority is always thinking to in this style. You give yourself what you need first. Then, and only then, are you able to be there for others. Or give to others. 

3.  You choose Self-Love as your Guide Post.  Any choice you make, any behavior or any thought you engage in MUST BE aligned with self-love. You do this as a habit and you know it's not a choice to choose anything else.  What is the opposite of Self-Love? Let's call it being stuck or beating yourself up. Use this simple question when it comes to choosing self-love as your guide post:  Will this choice/thought/behavior bring me the experience of self-love or will it bring me the experience of beating my self up? There is no in-between. Everything is one or the other. Continue noticing where you choose self-love or where you choose beating yourself up, and give yourself a reset button so you can choose self-love every time. 

4.  Your self-love is fully expressed.  Not partially expressed. Not half way expressed. Not diminished to fit in. Not compromised to make room for pleasing another. . . Your commitment to loving yourself FULLY shines through like a huge beam of light. And you do this as second nature, because you are fueled by the knowledge of how profoundly this serves everyone around you. Because you get the power of igniting the self-love fire in others simply by keeping your own flame burning brightly. 

5.  You're up for the ultimate challenge:  To reach mastery with self-care. It's a badge of honor well worth earning. It's monumental work, and it's hard work. And if you focus with intention, it can also flow with ease.  You know that the cost of what is holding you back from stepping fully into this far exceeds what you can afford any longer. Yet you find yourself sabotaging anyway. . . so you say YES to the challenge. It's about upleveling your self-awareness so that you can notice each moment and make the choices that break you free. 

6. You can glimpse the celebration party.  You can imagine yourself luxuriating in the goodness of being Priority One - and you can see the happy dance in action.  Let yourself feel into this.  Emotions and good feelings (that are all guilt free) will feed your momentum toward this new and bold expression of yourself FILLED with the contagious light of a self-loving heart. 

Take action on one of these priorities this week, and bask in the gifts of self-love. 

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