Six Signs Self-Love is Thriving 1.  You Love Yourself FIRST.   Above all else. And most importantly, you stand proudly in this reality.  No editing your self-loving commentary. No adjusting or compromising your self-loving choices. Being proud to put yourself #1. 2.  You GIVE love to yourself FIRST.   The story of the oxygen mask appearing on an airplane when there's a crisis never gets old. . . the point being: Put it on yourself first in order to be of any value to anyone, including yourself.  Your thriving priority is always thinking to in this style. You give yourself what you need first. Then, and only then, are you able to be there for others. Or give to others.  3.  You choose Self-Love as your Guide Post.   Any choice you make, any behavior or any thought you engage in MUST BE aligned with self-love. You do this as a habit and you know it's not a choice to choose anything else.  What is the opposite of Self-Love? Let's call it being stuck or beating y